thanksgiving fun.

oh how I love Thanksgiving. It is probably my favorite holiday out of all.  The day off that I got due to the holiday was EXACTLY what my soul needed. The feeling of homesickness was beginning to flood me and my exhaustion level was high, high, high. So, you better believe it when I say that I BOOKED it home after closing on Wednesday. That 2 hour drive back to MD felt like nothing because I was so excited.

The second I walked into the house, a sense of relief just washed over me. I totally ran a couple of laps around the house and was a bit confused walking into my own room. Is this really what my room looked like? Being confined too 800 square feet has gotten me all confused.

I spent most of my Thursday doing absolutely nothing and spending quality time with the family. Oh, how there is so much to be thankful for!

Needless to say, my 30-hour trip home was far too short but I left with a heart so full. 

playing catch up

where do I even begin with this life update?? I've had this post written up and deleted multiple times because my mind couldn't wrap itself over the situation fully. well, here I am now, hiding in the corner of the restaurant cranking this post out before the start of the dinner shift.

 

about a month and a half ago, I made one of THE toughest decisions of my life. long story short -- in a three week period, I put in my notice at California Tortilla, signed a lease to an apartment in Richmond, and moved down here to start a new job. Pretty much, I went back and forth with my decision and there were plenty of tears. Plenty of phone calls and plenty of tears. Were there times in which I wanted to laugh and say "Just Kidding" to my bosses at California Tortilla? ABSOLUTELY. Was it a terrifying thought to leave my corporate job and head to a job that required 100+ hours a week in a restaurant? ABSOLUTELY. But at the end of the day, family comes first.

 

i'm headed into the third week at my new job. the word "exhausted" kind of sums up all that i'm feeling. exhausted mentally, physically, emotionally. However, that's not to say that I've been having a blast down in Richmond. I've met some great people down here, been in very humbling situations, challenged in my career and have been learning more and more about myself by the day.

The next thing I'm trying to learn...making time for myself.

 



who am i?

  Super excited to be linking up with Jenni over at Story of my Life this month for a blog challenge. It's time to get back on the writing train!   Day 1: Describe where or what you come from. The people, the places, and/or the factors that make up who you are.   Ingredients to Karen Kong: *Faith *My incredible support system -- friends & family *Challenges and barriers *Amazing opportunities   Who am I? *Coffee addict *Sports lover *Restaurant marketeer *Sweet tea gulper *Food enthusiast  

star spangled 'Merica

Ten days of LA palm trees | Can't beat that perfect blue sky
Jana Kramer "Goodbye California"

Oh how I love 'Merica!

 I can't believe that it's already been a week since I returned from LA. (Does anyone else feel as though 2013 is FLYING?) Someone, TAKE. ME. BACK. ALREADY.

A couple months ago, I knew that it was about time that I take a vacation. My destination? Sunny LA to visit my fave, Kendall and Peter to celebrate one of my favorite holidays: 4th of July! Best decision...EVER.

I hopped on that plane, listened to Miley Cyrus' Party in the USA about a million times, and once I landed at LAX, I ran through there to find Kendall & Peter! The whole weekend was incredibly relaxing. I think my brain was so happy and filled with so many endorphins. Limited time with my email inbox is quite beautiful. Who knew?

My weekend in a few snapshots:

Goodbye Washington, DC...

Celebrating 'Merica the right way. Beach + BBQ + Fireworks

LOVING the 'Merica trunks behind us.

Spent Saturday afternoon shopping in Santa Monica.

 Highlight from lunch: Nutella Latte. YES.

What's more American than baseball? Let's go Boston!

We know a lot about baseball...right?

More fireworks after the Red Sox win! These fireworks had my heart. Oh my, gorgeous!

Sunday brunch at Sunny Spot. Two words: RUM. CREME. Still dreaming of this deliciousness.

How could I leave this?



*Sigh* I'm missing LA so much. I want to go back already! What an amazing long weekend. I came home refreshed and so ready to take on the work week!



friends who inspire

Since the start of post-grad life, I've been dipping my toes into a pool called "social life." The last time that I had an inkling of this so-called "social life" was...quite possibly junior or senior year of high school. The last four years have been a wild, non-stop ride. 

I've been spending some of my nights after the "9 - to - 5" job (yes, there's a reason for quotation marks) hanging out with friends. There's even the occasional Sunday Brunch after volunteering at Kid's Quest. Don't you know, the two main ways to my heart are froyo and brunch? It's crazy to think that some of my closest friends, JAKE, have been together since 5th grade. That's a doozy. We've literally seen each other grow up and pass through so many, SO MANY different stages of life. For all those wondering, JAKE stands for Julia, Alice, Karen, and Elaine. Yes -- the acronym is not only necessary...but we are actually known as that. Our boyfriends through the years have found it incredibly amusing. But, they know not to mess with any of us because we are more than friends...we're sisters. Ever heard of Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants? That's us...but in real life.

And then there's Lesley, whom I've known since freshman year of college. She's now moving to Paris to travel for a couple of months. Crazy, huh? What I love the most about this "social life" is that I get to slow down for a few hours and be present. The phone is off and I am 100% there soaking in all this friend time. LOVE every second of it. I love hearing what everyone has done, are doing, where they're headed, what they're thinking, and so on. 

Being a witness to so many transition phases has been awesome. What I've come to realize is, my friends are so incredibly inspirational! There's no doubt in my mind that they're each headed towards INCREDIBLE things: being a female executive, traveling the world, gaining new experiences, finding a cure for brain diseases, educating the nation about health issues, and the list goes on. I'm so crazy blessed to have each of these women in my life to inspire me. They push me in ways that I could not do so myself. They relay stories to me that I could never experience myself. As cheesy as it may sound, I truly hope that each of us have that circle of people who surround us with support, love, and inspiration. What better way to live?

congratulations graduate.

 "Unless you want to wind up back in your childhood bedroom…Find what you’re good at, passionate about & devour it." -- Darryl Frank

 

It's official. I have graduated. YES -- GRADUATED.

 

The above quote was one of my favorite ones from all 5 of the commencements at American University. Darryl Frank gave one of the best speeches from that weekend at the School of Communications commencement.

 

Graduation was quite surreal and the morning of seemed like an absolute haze. One minute I'm in the car driving to American University and the next thing I know, I'm flipping the tassel on my cap to the other side.

 

A Kong family picture is definitely necessary. {Can't figure out why the photo isn't clear!}

 

Surreal!!

 

So happy that Whit was able to make it to see me walk across the stage!

 

Post graduation photo shoot with Mama Kong!

 

Two weeks has passed since graduation and I'm slowly, SLOWLYYYY adjusting to post-grad life.

 

 



thank you.

Countdown to Graduation: 3 days.

I've been crazy sentimental in the past few days about graduation. To be honest, I'm not sure why. I always knew I would graduate -- that was expected but what I didn't forsee is the finish line. The line that we cross at graduation that marks the next chapter. The reality is, we are all going our separate ways. During my commute to campus and to work the past few weeks, I would catch tears welling up in my eyes because I slowly came to this realization. The past four years have been ridiculous -- good times, bad times, hills and valleys, heartbreak, betrayal, isolation, times of joy, and celebration. The spectrum of emotions, they were all hit at some point. 

I have a lot of people to thank in the past four years. College wasn't about learning -- no way. If anything, college was all about creating these relationships, investing in the lives of others, and being invested in. I didn't necessarily learn in my classes. The life long lessons that I learned were from my peers. They inspired me in unimaginable ways. So, I'd like to say...

Dear ...

Mom and Dad: We didn't always agree on everything and I'm not the easiest person to deal with and I know that. But, thank you. Thank you thank you thank you. I don't think I said that enough in the past four years....nor will I ever. You both worked hours on end and put me through college. These four years have been the toughest on us all, but especially the both of you. I could never thank you enough for the opportunities that you've given me and for allowing me to find my own way. You gave me space to make decisions for myself while still being there every step of the way to provide the advice that I needed. I'm going to do the best that I can to make you proud parents.

Whitney: Haha, where do I even begin? Thinking back now, I don't think that I ever imagined our friendship to be where it is today. Everything changed the first night I met you. You've been there through everything and were that shoulder to cry on. Thank you for being there for me. Thank you for being honest with me. Thank you for keeping me accountable. Thank you for your prayers. Thank you for chasing after me and making me open up when something was killing me. Thank you for being the friend that I needed the most in college. I'm so crazy blessed to have you in my life. And, I'm thanking you in advance for the times that you will be there for me in the future. 

Kendall: All that I want to say to you personally is in that card en route to California. You are such an inspiration and a role model to me. Through the caffeine and craze of life, you have continually supported me -- cheering me on from the sideline. You may not know it, but you have influenced many of the decisions that I have made in the last 3 years that I've known you. College wouldn't have been the same without you. I could not be more proud to call you my Big. SERIOUSLY. 

Lesley: How is it that we are here now? Can you believe all that we have been through in the last four years? From meeting in Leonard 5 to now. We've experienced our first internships together, the ridiculous stories, crazy professors, sleepless nights spent on marketing plans, brunch priorities, dreams of the future, study abroad, Snowmageddon, endless amounts of cupcakes, and all things in between. Now -- graduation. I'm so proud of you Lesley and you have been the person who pushes me. The one who has allowed me to dream big. You are headed towards incredible things. I can't wait to see you writing the Editor's Note in Glamour in a few years. 

Kelsey L.: BFFR. One of my greatest regrets in college is not spending more time together. The best thing though is that no matter how much time has passed without seeing one another, when we do grab a 30-minute coffee date, it's as though no time has passed. We pick up right where we started and snark away. You my dear, are so incredibly strong. THE strongest person that I know. I'm so thankful for the mini text messages full of encouragement that have been sent in the past four years. Where would we be if we hadn't met that Thursday night...in front of Kay...while you were on your cellphone...offering me a cookie? I don't even want to think about the possibility of never meeting!

Strong Fam: So much has happened but no matter what, we put it all aside. The tears and the laughter? That's what creates a family.


love always,
Karen

she's my person

I've been following a lot of the #BlogEveryDayinMay posts that are going around the blog-o-sphere recently and am happy to participate now that finals are over!   Today is all about providing a piece of advice to others. ANYTHING.   My advice to each and every person out there: HAVE A PERSON.  

via   Any Grey's Anatomy fans out there? That's right...find your Cristina to your Meredith, your Meredith to your Cristina. Have that friend in your life that you can depend on. Somebody who you can talk to about anything...no judgment. I've been so blessed to have people in my life who are there for me no matter what. One person that immediately pops into my head is Whitney! She's there for the good, she's there for the bad. She's my person!   The thing about life is that jobs and opportunities come and go but what holds us down are good people. You need incredible people in our life to keep you grounded.   So, go out there and find YOUR person.  

the ones who teach

I'm so happy to see that there is a week dedicated to appreciate the teachers out there. These men and women are so incredible and during my years in school, I don't think I really understood just how influential each of them really were. Now that I have finished college, I look back and am amazed at how each of these educators have played a role in molding me to who I am today. Below are just a few teachers that I want to take a moment and thank.

*Mr. Hershey, 2nd Grade: When I went into preview day the week before the first day of school, I was shocked to find out that I was going to have a guy as a teacher. It just wasn't a common thing in elementary schools. But he quickly became one of my favorite teachers. He knew how to make class fun for an easily distractable 2nd grader like myself. What I remember most from 2nd grade was Mr. Hershey teaching us sign language and watching caterpillars turn into butterflies in the classroom.

*Mrs. Corrado, 3rd and 4th Grade: Y'all, there are no words to describe my appreciation for Mrs. Corrado. I think that the fact that I am still in regular contact with her says a lot about the type of person that she is. When I found out that my family was going to move after 4th grade, I was absolutely devastated. Why? Because Mrs. Corrado wouldn't be my 5th grade teacher. But, she was great at comforting my anxiety (yup, anxiety was a regular thing even as a kid for me). She was always supportive of me, no matter what. Prior to the school year ending, she visited my new school and put my fears to rest. See? That just says so much about her character!

*Mrs. Heinbuch, Mr. Dahlin, and Mr. Indovina; Music Instructors: Lord, these three individuals were nothing but supportive of my piano career. They believed in me and presented me with opportunities all the time. I wouldn't be have been the performer that I was without them.

*Mr. Jernigan, AP Calculus: This man made me love Calculus. Yup, you read that correct -- LOVE + CALCULUS. It was probably the toughest class that I had in high school and while in the moment, I loathed every second of it. I spent endless number of nights practicing derivatives, anticipating any potential questions that he could ask. In the end, I understood that he was tough on us because he wanted to see us succeed. I'm sure glad that he did because I got to skip out of Calc at AU. On top of that, after our scores were released, Mr. Jernigan spent his summer vacation making calls to students congratulating them. LOVE IT.

*Mr. Jefferis, Physics: Oh Mr. Jefferis. My absolute favorite teacher of all time. This guy wrote all of my college recommendations. I met Mr. Jefferis on my first day of high school which also happened to be his first day teaching. I started out high school with Mr. Jefferis as a teacher and ended high school with Mr. Jefferis as a teacher as well. He made science FUN...and tolerable. Class was always exciting because of his dynamic personality. But the greatest thing was -- you knew he cared about his students. He spent all his free time helping students with whatever. Hands down, my favorite teacher ever.

I dug out this photo of Mr. Jefferis and I at senior prom. I mean, he has to be a fun guy if he agreed to chaperone a high school dance, right?

These are just a handful of teachers that I want to thank. The list could go on for days. What these teachers all have in common: they INVEST in the lives of their students. They actually really do care about our success! Too often, all of their hard work goes unnoticed because of the snarky attitudes of teenagers. We shouldn't just thank our teachers during this one week, it should be EVERY DAY.

Thank you to all the educators in my life and to those down the road.



Tuesday Tunes | Lennon & Maisy Stella

.This week's Tuesday Tunes feature is on two superstars on ABC's new hit show Nashville, Lennon and Maisy Stella. They play the daughters of Corinne Britton's character, Rayna James. How stinkin' cute are they. And let me tell you, they're even greater singers!

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Lennon and Maisy started off as two gals posting videos of themselves singing onto Youtube. When I first heard them singing on Nashville I was floored. These girls are amazing! The timbre of their voices are mesmerizing!

After a rough week last week, I snuggled up Thursday night after class and vegged out watching the latest episode of the show. I was beyond ecstatic to see that Lennon and Maisy got the opportunity to sing. They covered the The Lumineers' song Ho Hey. I cried like a baby hearing it. Maybe it was the pent up emotions from the week or the plot line or when Deacon and Rayna had their "Ho, Hey" moment. ...maybe it was ALL OF IT.

Give it a listen. I promise you, you will be hooked. I have been since Thursday and it has been on loop all week.

PS: How dreamy is Charles Esten??

Happy Listening!



Monthly Goals: April

Oh, hey April. You snuck up on me there! March was a terrible month for me and I'm over it. I woke up on the morning of the 1st and was excited to start a new month. April is a clean slate, new mentality, and refreshed attitude.

 

As I sat down with my April calendar opened up, I was shocked. It's going to be a whirlwind. All of my weekends have been booked with up event after event. On top of that, it's my final three weeks of my undergraduate career. How crazy!

When I thought about my goals for this month, I didn't really know what exactly I wanted to achieve. Things have been so up and down lately that I just wanted to set some overarching resolutions. Resolutions aren't as focused as goals but they're exactly what I need right now.

April Goals Resolutions
1. Stay Positive
2. Allow yourself to cry....
3. ...but know when to let things go
4. Make the most of your last 3 weeks as a college student

in a haze

I'm sitting in Starbucks right now, trying to crank out [what I really mean is: figure out] this Finance report. These reports stress me out like nothing else in this world.

 

It's weird being back in school after a week-long break. I've been in this absolute funk since the end of last semester/beginning of this semester. I thought that it'd disappear during break but unfortunately, I'm still in this funk. Something just isn't feeling right. Nothing is clicking for me and it's completely throwing me off my game.

I can feel that my mood is at an all time low. To be honest, I'm not my chipper self and wallow. There is A LOT of wallowing. Focus is out the window and everything is a complete haze.

 

There isn't a fire lit in me right now. When that alarm goes off in the morning, I just lie there and stare at my ceiling for an extra 15-20 minutes, refusing to get out of bed. When does that ever happen to me? ....never.

 

I'm really hoping things clear up soon and I find my way through all of this haze. I'm absolutely over it.

 

#negativenancy

#myapologies

SPRING.BREAK.

Hey there Spring Break! It doesn't really feel like it, huh? It was snowing two days ago and it's literally freezing out there. You know what though? I'LL TAKE IT.

It won't be much of a Spring Break for me (still have a full-time job here!) but I'll be taking a short 2-day trip. Total spontaneity there.

I may have to work next week but at least there won't be classes! Woo! It's still a much-needed break. I will be spending my evenings with happy hours, crafting, books, stationery, and tons of writing. Most importantly, spending some quality time with my best friends! I could honestly not ask for more.



Life Defining Decade

More and more these days, I feel old. I know, I know. Many of you are probably thinking, "How can you feel old? You are only 21!" Well, let me put things into perspective here. I am actually turning 22 in July but according to the Lunar calendar (Chinese calendar) I am now 23 years old. In my mind, somehow I jumped 2 years ahead overnight. On top of that, my mom, at 21 was already married and I believe pregnant with her second child. Yeah, let that sink in for a moment.

So, in my world, 21/22/23 years old (WHATEVER AGE I AM) is....well, old. There's no beating around the bush on that one. After reading this Levo League article about the lies we tell ourselves about our 20's, I couldn't help but stop and think. Holy moly, our 20s truly is the most important decade of our lives. Like Levo League says, it's a LIFE-DEFINING DECADE. The most change occurs within these 10-years. We graduate from college, get thrown into the real world after spending close to 20 years in school, jump start a career, find love, get married, have kids, feel our way through life and independence, and experience everything else that is thrown our way. SO MUCH. 

I've now lived close to 1/5 of my 20s and hope that I've met my own expectations so far. I actually haven't had time to stop and think about it because the pace of my life is literally go, go, go. It's been a whirlwind. A lot of change has happened within the past 2 years without me even noticing. Most of it is really personal change in the way that I see the world. I'd like to think that I'm an optimistic person and for the most part, I am. However, there is a part of me that has become a lot more guarded. I tend to mask things extremely well, and that just comes with growing up...maybe??

One thing that I do hope to achieve during the next 4/5 of this decade is to slow down. Of course, I want to have a great career, start a family, still be involved with the community, and somehow find a great balance of it all. But, at the root of all things, I want to be able to slow down and appreciate all that the Lord has blessed me with. I want to enjoy things and not be so serious or goal-oriented every single second of my life to the point where I miss the little things. 

This life-defining decade is daunting and filled with uncertainty but you have to step out in faith. At the same time, keep in mind that while laying your foundation and building this so-called legacy is important, you also need to learn to enjoy life. 

this is the year to...

As you all remember, I was having an incredibly rough week last week. I came home after a long day to a very, very surprising package. It was completely unexpected but made my day/week. Aren't those the best kind of gifts? The unexpected ones? Oh, it's the little things that count!

What did I find upon opening the package? This incredibly beautiful bangle.

It's the Kate Spade "this is the year to..." gold bangle. On the outside the words "be a firecracker, take a road trip, dance till dawn, wear red, master the bow tie, embrace color" are engraved. I guess Mama Is knew I was having a rough week because those were the exact words I needed to see. It was a great reminder that you decide how your day goes and how you feel. This one bad week is a blip in the grand scheme of things.

I've been wearing the bangle for a couple days now and can't help but smile whenever I look down at my wrist.

So, "this is the year to..." What are your dreams? Hopes?

Tuesday Tunes | Tyrone Wells

You here with me tonight | Kicking it on top of the world

And I think that we should stay here | I could pretend that I don't care if you say goodbye

Tyrone Wells' album, This Love, was released at the end of last year and yet I love it more and more with each listen. The day the album was released, John even texted me asking if I got the album because it was AMAZING. First off, duh John. Do you even know me? Secondly, if John says it's amazing, that says a lot. Glad I was able to help him appreciate good music.

It's an incredibly beautifully written and produced album. It's a happy CD that walks you through the stages of a relationship. There isn't a breakup involved but there are still sad lyrics at times. Love and relationships are not always perfect. Even in strong relationships, there are ups and downs and Tyrone Wells captures that with this album. The last song is so sweet. It's a song dedicated to his newborn daughter at the time, Aria. When I first heard it, I felt awkward. It was as if I was intruding on a private moment. But, I think he just wanted to profess his love to his first child and to give listeners a peek into the love he has for her. 

A few of my favorite tracks: A Beautiful Place to Be; This Love; Make it Through; Already Falling; You and Me on Top of the World; God Would you Help Us

Here's a little sample of the album with "A Beautiful Place to Be." 

He's coming to NoVa this spring for the Spring Tour for This Love and I can only hope that I'll be able to go! Darn you classes! 

The Family Keeps on Growing

One of my favorite things about Alpha Kappa Psi is my family: STRONG FAM. All of us belong in this family and mesh. What have I noticed? We're all social, love laughing and most importantly...sassy. Lots and lots of sass. This past Thursday, we welcomed new babies into the family! Never have I ever felt older than that evening.

Some of the few lovely Strong Fam ladies. Can we get any cuter?

Welcome to the family new babies!

Part of my line minus David. Loving the statement necklaces!

OOTN: Blazer (Express) | Lace Peplum Top (Target) | Necklace (Francesca's) | Crossbody (Target) | Skinny Jeans (PacSun) | Boots (Mama Kong's Closet)

Love that Strong Fam is seeing great additions! This family just keeps on growing.



Oh the Places We'll See

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With a big-girl job in the real world, that means I am no longer a student with month-long breaks. It's time for paid vacation and figuring out how to properly manage the days given. A lot more stressful than you'd think. There's a lot of math and planning that goes into it because I definitely want to spread them out so as to avoid burn-out at work! 

After the stressful week that I've had, I can't help but dream about spring, summer, and early fall. I'm so excited to jet around and see friends that are all over the world (more like country)! And, let's be real. I want to be in shorts,  sandals, colorful tops, and sporting sunnies. 

Where are some of my jet-setting destinations on the list before the end of the year?

*NYC (probably 2-3 visits!)

*LA (cue "California, California, HERE WE COMEEE")

*Idaho 

*Boston (4th of July!)

*Charlotte

*Newport, RI

*Bahamas
*China (the likelihood of this becomes slimmer and slimmer by the day)

Seems like a mighty good list to me. I absolutely cannot contain my excitement! 

Lent Progress: Struggling

When I first decided to give up Starbucks/coffee/caffeine for Lent, I honestly did not think I would last a week. It was going to take a lot of self-control and strength from God. Am I surprised that I'm sitting here without a single sip? Oh yes! I spent last Sunday at Starbucks studying the entire day and that was a huge temptation that I was able to suppress. Did I stare with envy at those who were enjoying their fancy schmanzy drinks? Yup...maybe for a little too long at times. I do apologize for making anyone feel uncomfortable! But, I took a step back and remembered the true meaning and purpose behind Lent. At that point, it didn't matter if I was the only one sitting at Starbucks not enjoying a drink!

One thing I didn't take into account when I made my decision for Lent was my ridiculous life right now. As a full-time employee and full-time student, I forgot that things are a bit...hectic at this moment. Scratch that, things are quite miserable at times; particularly in the morning hours. I completely forgot that midterms is smack-dab right in the middle of Lent. Yes, hello midterms. We are NOT friends...nor will we ever be. 

This week has been...terrible. For five days, I had that "lack of caffeine" migraine which I happily pushed through. But, then came group projects, papers, reading, and studying that needed to get done. Just between Monday - Thursday, I've probably averaged about 3-4 hours of sleep a night. I clocked in about an hour of sleep Tuesday night? Yeah, you try doing that without any caffeine. I'm mentally, physically, and even emotionally drained. When is my next break?? 

But in the midst of all the complaining and exhaustion, I searched and searched for joy. Let me tell you. It took a lot of prayer and quieting the heart. But, I'm incredibly grateful for everything in my life at this moment and the opportunities that have been presented. No regrets for a single second! 

Here's to week 2 of caffeine-free Lent.

Chinese New Year through K.Kong's Eyes

It's been a week since Chinese New Year. Oh man, what a hoot that was! I legitimately had a social calendar for the weekend in order to welcome in the Year of the Snake. In a way, Chinese New Year isn't just about welcoming in the new year, it's a time spent celebrating with family and friends. What are my thoughts from Chinese New Year?

1. There is tons and tons of food.

The picture below is the spread at my grandparents' this year. There was more than enough food! And the picture above? That's only round 1! Crazy, huh? Nothing like Grandma and Grandpa You's homecooking. Yum-o! I definitely felt like a bowling ball afterwards. I could've rolled outta there!

2. We have crazy superstitions.

There are plenty of superstitions in the Chinese culture. One of them being a good fortune egg. It's common practice to eat an egg for good luck no matter if it is a new year or if you're about to embark on a journey (aka get on a plane or a train).

3. Lots of family time.

While I LOVE spending time with my family, Chinese New Year is also the time to get the much appreciated "When are you getting married?" question. Not only do I now get that question, I get the "Where are my grandkids?" question quite often. Seriously now, family? The best thing, according to the Lunar Calendar, I am now 23 years old. Excuse me, what? To my family, 23 years old = you should be married by now. Cool. I'll let you know.

Mama Kong and I at one of the celebrations.

Alright, Year of the Snake. For your sake, my sake, and my family's sake, I hope this year is filled with good fortune...and somewhat of an exciting love life? (But seriously, I'm tired of getting those questions 10 times a day....and that's on a good day.)

End of the Week Thoughts

Thoughts:

*i'm in love with babies and would nothing more than to have children right about now

*why do i feel so down lately?

*maybe my parents are right, i should get married ASAP

*what on earth am i doing with my life?

*i think i'm slowly inching towards being an introvert ever since i started college

*i miss my best friends

*i'm absolutely terrified of the future

I've been in such a weird funk of a mood (as I'd like to put it) lately. My mind is moving at about a thousand miles per hour in about a million different directions. At the same time though, something isn't clicking. 

Lent Season is Upon Us

Lent kind of snuck up on me this year. Things have been so hectic that I didn't realize that we are halfway through February and it's time to start thinking about Easter. I've been praying a lot over Lent this week and what I will be fasting this season. 

What did I decide on? It's kind of a two-parter. I'm giving up Starbucks, or really any coffee. Yes, that includes coffee from Ward, Eagle's Nest, Dav, and any other place I frequent to get my caffeine fix. Simultaneously, I will be adding something to my daily routine for Lent: slowing down a bit and blocking out time for my devotionals and journaling. 

The Starbucks and coffee thing is a pretty big thing for me and I'm already riding the struggle-bus on this one this morning (as it is Day 1). A huge part of my morning is heading into Starbucks before work, chatting it up with my barista, and grabbing a tall hazelnut coffee with room (if I'm in the splurging mood, I may go for a tall skinny hazelnut latte or a ice tall chai). There's nothing better than that first sip of coffee in the morning, when I all I want to do is crawl back into bed and sleep for a few more minutes. **side note: it's sad that my barista knows when I'm coming in in the morning, knows my drink, and is sometimes my best friend**

And the coffee doesn't stop there. I'm most definitely obligated to grab another cup once I get on campus before heading into the dreaded 5:30 - 8PM block every night. (I guess I shouldn't complain as I'm lucky to have dropped my 8:10 - 10:40PM block. Could you imagine the caffeine consumption at that point). **side note/random observation: Does anyone else think that the coffee at Ward is extra-caffeinted? I feel like I'm bouncing off the walls after a couple of sips.** 

As you can see, I have an insane dependence on Starbucks and coffee in general. It's kind of taken away from the time that I can be spending praying, reading the Word, or journaling. Instead of depending on the Lord, I'm depending on caffeine for strength. That time I'm spending in line at Starbucks or relaying life updates to my barista, can really be spent praying for my friends, reading a verse, or journaling a thought.

SO, I shall be letting go of my dependence on Starbucks and coffee for the next 40 days and spending more time with devotionals and journaling! Who knows, I may even give up Starbucks and coffee forever after this? **Kind of a hard thing to believe now as I sit here with a "lack of caffeine" induced migraine.**

I'm really excited to see what the Lord will show me through this Lent season and how He will be moving my heart in different ways. What will you be doing this Lent season?

Tuesday Tunes | Rihanna & Mikky Ekko

This post is coming ridiculously late tonight. But, I figured that since I'm sitting in class insanely bored, I might as well catch up on blogging.

Anyone watch the Grammy's the other night? There were SO many highlights from this year's awards show. Did y'all feel a different vibe this year? It wasn't some trashy or cheesy show. There was class, great music, and a true celebration of the music industry.

My top rated moment of the night is HANDS DOWN Justin Timberlake's performance but I will save that fan-girl reaction for tomorrow. My second favorite performance of the night was from Rihanna and Mikky Ekko. I've been HOOKED to their collaboration, "Stay" for awhile now and that has been amplified 100 times since Sunday's performance.

First off, can we just pause and give a shout out to Nashville? HUGE successes coming out of that great city. How awesome was it seeing Mikky Ekko on national TV? I was beyond ecstatic for this guy. He deserves it! Such a great talent.

I typically associate Rihanna with catchy Top 40 radio pop songs. But "Stay" is different. It's probably my favorite song of hers. It's slower, great lyrics, and in my mind this song highlights her talent.

Give it a listen! What are your thoughts?



Monthly Goals | February 2013

2013 is already flying by. How are we already in the month of February? As we start this new month, I've decided that I need to be kept more accountable with my monthly goals. It's so easy for me to come up with a list of goals and forget about them. Most times than not, that's precisely what happens. SO, starting this month, I will be having an accountability partner. Who you may ask? My wonderful Alpha Kappa Psi Big: Kendall!

 

Kendall and I at formal this past December.

 

Both Kendall and I started posting our monthly goals on our blogs about a year ago. *check out Kendall's blog. I'm quite in love with it!* Like I said, I prefer goals over resolutions. They are far more specific and keep me focused throughout the month. Kendall and I have swapped our lists of goals and will be keeping one another accountable throughout the month. My favorite thing that she does? For every goal that I don't meet during the month, $10 will be donated to charity. What a fabulous idea Kendall!

 

February Goals

1.Stay on top of homework: With a full-time job and full course load there is no time for procrastination! Weekends are for homework...not for play.

2. Blog more! I'm aiming for at least 3 posts a week (I'm on a roll this week!).

3. Get off my butt and workout: With such a busy schedule, it's tough to find time to relax and very easy to get stressed/grumpy. Let's recall to Elle Woods: "Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy."

4. Write handwritten letters: Slowly chugging away at my 365 Snail Mail goal. Want a letter from me? Let me know your address!

5. Stick to my budget!: Now that I'm on salary, I'm on my own with all of my expenses. Time to cut back on the unnecessary meals out, Starbucks, and shopping. Sad day.

 

Let's see how I do this month!



Tuesday Tunes | Beyonce

When I leave this world | I'll leave no regrets

I was here | I lived, I loved

Anyone else still on a high after Beyoncé's Superbowl performance? It's been 2 days now, but I'm still thinking about her ridiculously amazing Halftime Show. There were mixed reviews from the general public but here are my thoughts.

I thought it was AMAZING and I had to contain my excitement. *I've been looking forward to this Halftime Show since it was announced.* Many of the general public claim that it was completely overrated and the vocals weren't there. Hey now, she is an ENTERTAINER. If you wanted her to put on the Grade A+ vocals that we all know she has, then it wouldn't showcase her incredible dancing. She sacrificed a little bit of her vocals to provide ENERGY + ENTERTAINMENT. If you wanted vocals, did you hear the snippets of Love on Top and Halo? My favorite part of the show was seeing Queen B do her thing. How fabulous does she look? She gave birth a year ago! Oh, and the Destiny's Child reunion. Loved it but was kinda happy to see that Beyonce kicked Kelly and Michelle off-stage during Single Ladies. Let B do B.

It's been two days since that Pepsi Halftime Show and Beyoncé's album 4 has been on my iPod rotation. I've attached a lot of my study abroad experience in Beijing along with this album. Throughout my semester abroad, this album was always playing at least once a day. My favorites off this album include: Love on Top, Countdown, 1+1. BUT my favorite one of all: I Was Here. Some GREAT lyrics in this one!

Here are the Grade A+ vocals!
Placed my thoughts into a beautiful song. Thanks Beyonce!

R&R in Boston

This is one overdue post! Better late than never, right?

Right before the start of the semester, I took a mini two-day vacation to visit my best friend Whitney in Boston. **side note: can we please just pause and take a moment to freak out over the fact that it's my FINAL undergraduate semester??** While I loved exploring Boston, my favorite part during the two days was spending some quality time with Whitney.

Whitney and I have known each other since my second week of college and has quickly become one of my closest friends. It's crazy to think that we've only known each other for three years because it feels like a lifetime. We have both gone through so much together!

What did we do during my visit?

1. Be a Student
Both Whit and Josh are in seminary so I got a little feel of what it was like Friday morning when I sat in on a Missions class with them. It was absolutely fascinating. I wish I were paying more attention and not answering emails! Oops...

2. Be Tourists

As you can see, it was a wee bit cold when we went out and a wee bit cloudy/gloomy.

3. Eat our Hearts Out

I joked with Whitney that I would need to bring stretchy pants for the trip because as you all know, I live through food! We made a trip out to this AMAZING pastry shop in Little Italy called Mike's Pastries. The most delicious cannolis EVER. We got the cookies and cream one as well as the peanut butter chip. OH MAN. Whit and I were in Dessert Heaven!

As Washington, DC natives, we just HAD to make a trip out to Newbury Street and visit Georgetown Cupcake. People probably gave us weird looks as we were total tourists and took pics in front of the store. I actually LOVED the Newbury location. It was a very open space compared to our usual Georgetown and Bethesda locations. PLUS, at 3 in the afternoon, they also had the free flavor of the day available: Lemon Coconut! MmMm DELICIOUS.

4. Cardmaking/Painting Nails
Aren't these staples to a girl's sleepover!? Nothing like card making and painting your nails with the best polish: ESSIE.

5. Get hooked to West Wing

As many of you may know, over break I got myself HOOKED to the show West Wing (thanks to Kate, Kendall, and Peter!). I have legitimately become emotionally attached to Mr. President, Sam, Josh, Leo, Tobi, CJ, and Charlie. Don't laugh but I cried during the Season 1 finale and the Season 3 finale. I don't mean a few tears, I mean...waterworks. As I type right now, I am currently in the middle of Season 4. *SPOILER: SAM SEABORN YOU BETTER NOT BE LEAVING* I can't get enough of this show! WELL. During my visit to Boston, I successfully got both Whit and Josh hooked too. MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.

I would like to say that my mini-vacation to Boston was an absolute success. By Sunday, I didn't want to leave! Whit and I have decided that we need to see each other more often. This whole every 6 months thing isn't working out very well!